Financial Freedom | Be the one to cut the chains of poverty
Even though the Philippines is considered to be a newly industrialized country (NIC) because of good governance and consistent economic growth we still can't deny the fact that a lot of our fellow filipinos are suffering from poverty. One of the known causes of this is due to rapid population growth. And this can be very scary now that our country is gaining a lot of momentum in terms of economic growth. Sooner or later the gap between poor families and rich families would be too much for the government to handle or manage. No matter how good or bad our government is, it can only do so much in terms of making our lives better.
We should also take responsibility for our lives instead of depending too much on the government because it will never happen. Sadly some of our fellow filipinos think that way. They often would blame the Philippine government for their shortcomings in life. The change should start from ourselves first. There's no other way.
One may find oneself belonging in a family suffering from poverty. It's definitely not your fault if you were born poor. However, it will be your fault if you don't take any action to correct it and later on you still die being poor. That I believe should be the worst case.
I used to remember my college batch mate. He's mom works as a sewer while he's father works as a construction worker. He has one younger brother. I know they were not doing well financially because I can see that he doesn't have enough money to buy food during our snack break. We were close friends that's why sometimes he would tell stories about their financial situation and it was humbling to listen to his stories.
One thing I will not forget is when he told me the story about telling his parents stopping them in having another baby. The reason he told his parents this is that they are already living a hard life because of their financial situation and adding another member to the family will just put them in deeper hole financially. Nonetheless, he was able to convince his mom to have ligation.
I do agree with him while I listened intently to his story. If only most of our poor filipino families would think like my friend our country will lessen the negative effects of having lots of poor families. At the same time these families are over-sized so it's even much difficult for them to have a better quality of life. Because of lack of education and lack of money to support their basic needs, some would resort to selling or using drugs for boys or committing crime in order to survive and girls would resort to prostitution. These are just some of the common negative effects of overpopulation and poverty combined.
We need more of our countrymen to be more of a proactive instead of just being reactive. Being proactive means being reactive too but doing it just ahead of time thus controlling the outcome of an incident that is bound to happen. Reactive, on the other hand means you only react after the incident already happened.
In my example, my college friend already knew the effects of their parents having another baby. He already pictured out what will happen to them and he decided to change this outcome. It's a very rare trait that is worth emulating. Right now this friend of mine is also in the I.T. industry and just got engaged. I'm confident he will have a better life in the future because of how he thinks in a proactive way.
Now, if you're from a poor family, challenge yourself to step up and be the one to cut the chains of poverty. Be proactive instead of being reactive. Be the one to cut the chains of poverty in your family and you will forever be remembered for this. Your children and children's children will talk about you and tell stories on how you made there lives better. This is the legacy you will be leaving them.
How about if you're not from a poor family? Then you can still challenge yourself to be better than what your parents have accomplished. After all, what is life if we just live within our comfort zones. It is through getting out of comfort zones that we can improve ourselves. Lastly, ask yourself what legacy you will be leaving when you leave this earth. All of us will die someday, and he who have left a legacy will have a meaningful life.